Family members disagreeing, sometimes heatedly, about the patient's care. Learner must stay neutral, refocus on the patient's wishes, and de-escalate.
One of 12 de-escalation & conflict scenarios in the library.
The Hendersons
Patient's family
Family members disagreeing, sometimes heatedly, about the patient's care. Learner must stay neutral, refocus on the patient's wishes, and de-escalate.
Skills you'll train
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Your brief
You are stepping into a hospice conversation with the Henderson family, who are arguing at the bedside about what the patient would want. Linda is upset, her brother is pushing in a different direction, and the tension is starting to spill over. Your goal is to stay neutral, de-escalate the conflict, and guide the conversation back to the patient's wishes and values. How you handle this conversation can help the family feel heard while keeping care decisions centered on the patient.
Why it's hard
Two relatives are pulling you toward opposite answers while the patient is not the one speaking. If you sound even slightly more aligned with Linda or her brother, the room can turn on you fast. You have to lower the temperature and still move everyone back to one question: what did Mom actually say she would want?
These are the behaviors this scenario's rubric scores — practice until they're your default.
Family conflict mediation training is practice for bedside conversations where relatives disagree about a patient's care. In this scenario, you speak with the Henderson family through a voice AI persona, work to de-escalate the conflict, and get percentage-based scoring from the transcript on how well you stayed neutral and refocused on the patient's wishes.
Devon Carter
Residential treatment client
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Skills you'll train
Harold Jenkins
Assisted-living resident
Two residents in conflict, one complaining angrily. Learner must mediate calmly, hear both sides, and resolve it while protecting dignity.
Skills you'll train
Frank DeLuca
Patient, billing dispute
A patient furious over a long wait or surprise bill, raising their voice in the waiting room. Learner must lower the temperature, acknowledge the frustration, and move to a fix before it spreads.
Skills you'll train
The skill
De-escalation & conflict →
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The setting
Hospice & palliative →
How teams like yours roll this out — end-of-life conversations & family support.
Make it yours
Custom scenarios →
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